No sexual motivation
i don’t want sex any more. ive been with my partner 2 years, and i have completely gone off the idea in the past year.
i am on lamotragine for bi polar disorder, but have only been on that for a few months.
my partner has a large penis, which should be a good thing. but it really hurts if we leave having sex for more than a week.
im not sure if it’s my mental state or the fact i know it will hurt that’s stopping me.
but its really getting us both down.
i am on lamotragine for bi polar disorder, but have only been on that for a few months.
my partner has a large penis, which should be a good thing. but it really hurts if we leave having sex for more than a week.
im not sure if it’s my mental state or the fact i know it will hurt that’s stopping me.
but its really getting us both down.
twice. i was told to post it in the women’s health section, hello.
so be quiet love
so be quiet love
Best Answer
mmm a predickament. If it’s pain full l sympathize, but l don’t think it’s because hes got a big one, because it stretched enough to let a whole babies shoulders out doesn’t it?.
The drugs for Bi polar are strong enough to effect that, as they suppress any moods [good or bad], which would add to it, and maybe it’s come to a head [don't mean to think of that ,because it's not funny l know]
I am more than twice the size of my asian wife and well endowed,and she is very dry naturally, even when she orgasms [before me usually]
What we do, is , l wash myself , hands and penis, and rub cold pressed olive oil on my erect penis and penetrate her, which helps the dry tight feeling [and therefore maybe your pain will be less or none. There are lubricants available as well, but we like the oil better.[and being cold pressed, it must be good for you,lol]
Off course Pookaloo, it would be very important to have lots of caring foreplay , to relax all of you
.Best to put a towel down, as the sheets get oil on them which is harder to clean.
Wait till your naturally aroused by yourself to try it with him again and explain this with him. Don’t give up, as it will break down your relationship and you would miss the caring side of that.
See if ,by yourself,a dildo aid hurts also. with oil on it?, if not, then l would say there is some built up anticipation or tension between you both ,that needs caring and sharing about together. Massage each other for a good while without expectations, is good all round and caring.All the best with that .Andboy.
Oh , try wild yam cream on wrists [Annies] it balances out hormones and could help your bi polar if there connected , as they easy could be.Check Google on that
The drugs for Bi polar are strong enough to effect that, as they suppress any moods [good or bad], which would add to it, and maybe it’s come to a head [don't mean to think of that ,because it's not funny l know]
I am more than twice the size of my asian wife and well endowed,and she is very dry naturally, even when she orgasms [before me usually]
What we do, is , l wash myself , hands and penis, and rub cold pressed olive oil on my erect penis and penetrate her, which helps the dry tight feeling [and therefore maybe your pain will be less or none. There are lubricants available as well, but we like the oil better.[and being cold pressed, it must be good for you,lol]
Off course Pookaloo, it would be very important to have lots of caring foreplay , to relax all of you
.Best to put a towel down, as the sheets get oil on them which is harder to clean.
Wait till your naturally aroused by yourself to try it with him again and explain this with him. Don’t give up, as it will break down your relationship and you would miss the caring side of that.
See if ,by yourself,a dildo aid hurts also. with oil on it?, if not, then l would say there is some built up anticipation or tension between you both ,that needs caring and sharing about together. Massage each other for a good while without expectations, is good all round and caring.All the best with that .Andboy.
Oh , try wild yam cream on wrists [Annies] it balances out hormones and could help your bi polar if there connected , as they easy could be.Check Google on that