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I’m starting to have weird bouts of ED I think.

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Nerves being a possible cause of ED?

I’m posting on here mainly because I’m too embarrassed to see a doc or take the blue pill to remedy this but I’m seriously confused. I’m 25 years old, in good shape, not overly stressed on anything but for some reason, I’m starting to have weird bouts of ED I think. The last two girls I’ve been with, everything’s working fine especially as we’re making out but as the clothes come off, the little man downstairs seems to check out. Both the girls are more attractive than my last ex so I know it can’t be not being attracted to them. I’ve never had this problem with any previous girlfriend in my life and the only difference was that these last two didn’t like giving BJs but I don’t think that should matter all that much in my staying up. Yes, I’m able to masturbate just fine and like I said, just prior to the act, I was up and ready to go. Just not quite sure what happened cause then it just up and died. Do you think it’s maybe somewhat psychological as this is a new partner?

Also would it be caused by nerves? I mean, being it was the first time with the girl, maybe nerves got the best of me and I thought about making it perfect for her that I kinda shot myself in the foot on the whole thing so to speak.

This is a bit of a repost to answer a few other things that could be contributing. I’m able to get it up by myself and with her up until the point of having sex and then nada. Almost feels like I’ve had too much to drink and it won’t work but I was completely sober. If it is just nerves, how does one get past this?

Best Answer

Definitely sounds like nerves to me. If there was an underlying medical condition you wouldn’t be able to get an erection at all.

I was dating a guy who had the same problem. The first few times we tried to have sex he was partially flacid. It took him getting used to being with me and knowing I wasn’t judging him for it to finally get (and stay) fully erect.

By the way, the guy I was seeing at the time was only 23. He ended up going to the doctor and the doctor told him it was anxiety about having sex that was causing it.

Maybe the next time you and your girl are together you could focus mainly on pleasuring her in other ways. It may be so stimulating to you and her that you won’t feel so pressured to please her with actual intercourse. Once you know you can satisfy her in other ways, you’ll probably be able to keep your erection.

I hope this helps and good luck!

July 16, 2010 · Tagged with

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  1. Health says:
    July 16, 2010 at 4:02 am

    Yeah, it sounds just like a case of the nerves and maybe different style of your girlfriends, if they do not like sucking you off then maybe get them to **** you off till you are close to shooting your load and that way you are more likely to keep you wood. If you are a bit nervous as you said these girls are better looking than your previous conquest then why not have one or two stiff drinks to help relax yourself but of course do not get carried away, medicinal purposes only until you get used to having sex with your new partner, I am sure the problem will clear itself up when you can relax a little bit more. I would not recommend getting medication from your doctors, natural all the way mate.

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