Should i give my fiance the ring back?
My relationship is like a disaster! Should i give my fiance the ring back?
I am 25 & have been with my fiance 9yrs, im madly in love with him. He works long shifts but has been with me through everything life has thrown at me. We have a son who is 3mths old and he adores our son like nothing i’ve ever seen.
I never really believed in marriage as i have seen so many marriages fail and gone wrong but because i cant imagine my life without him i decided to get over my fear.
We have been fighting so much lately even though he tells me he hates fighting with me, we still have an amazing sex life as i am a very sexual person. He was getting frustrated as i hadn’t done any wedding planning yet, I have no desire at all right now to plan or set a date as i look after our son when he works although i plan on going back to work. I was always told by people that i am hard to love as i keep so much of me guarded & don’t let many people in and i know i am pushing my fiance away.
Everything he has ever done for me is amazing even when i lost a baby 6 years ago, he thinks nothing is ever good enough for me. He is the man of my dreams but i feel a gap coming between us since i had our son. Last weekend when he came home after drinking with his work buddies we had an argument about the wedding plans etc & he told me if i don’t start acting like i wanna be with him i would probably end up old, alone and miserable. That hurt me so much i couldn’t stop crying and ended up telling him that he is only happy with me because i gave him his son and its the only reason he is with me, he ended up storming out of the house.
When i seen him the morning we never spoke a word so i just left for work. I was thinking maybe we should take a break and maybe i should give him the ring back as its not good for us and really not good for our baby even though we don’t argue around him. This is really breaking my heart, any advice?
Best Answer
dnt leave him he sounds like a keeper… u r just going thru a rough patch… this will pass i promise… keep him close… just close ur eyes and imagine you and ur baby without him…what would happ if today was the last day you seen him… i appreciate things way more wen i picture myself with out them. i thimk he just feels like mayb your changing ur mind about him and thats y ur not planning a wedding…dont drive him away… cuz men like that r sooo hard to find! hold him and hold him close… because u and ur baby need him. put some effort into the wedding show some progress and show him u care… do not give the ring back… it would b a big mistake.