I don’t ejaculate for 20 minutes, but my GF went through multiple orgasms
I take forever to ejaculate…is this a problem?
Okay so heres the deal: I am 19 years old and just lost my virginity. Well, I was told that the first time I will only last a minute or so. Thats not what happened. We went good and hard for over 20 minutes and I never came. She went through multiple orgasms, but not even those caused me to ***.
So heres my question really: a) Is this a problem such as premature but the opposite? and b) Ladies do you see this as a problem…or a good thing?
When I originally posted this, it had been about 2 months since I actually had the sex I was talking about. now heres the important part:
I just had sex for my second time. Completely different girl. Well, I brought her back to my place around 730 pm. We started to watch “hottub time machine”, and about 5 mins into it I began to massage her and kiss her neck (especially behind her ears). I did this for about 10 mins before I took off her shirt and bra. The whole Time I was giving her a massage and kissing her throat. Well, she was pretty wet by the time I got her pants and underwear off. I continued to kiss her thighs and give her oral for a good 15 minutes before I penetrated her. Well, we ****** missionary, doggy, she was top, and we did it with her legs on my shoulders. Every position felt great, and she came about 9 times while I was with her until 1045pm when I had to take her back because we are both in the army and have to get up early. The problem is…I never came. problem?
Ran out of space above haha. Well, does everyone still think its normal…or does anyone know of a health problem that could cause this?
oh yeah, I forgot. For the last 15 mins, she gave me a handjob trying to make me ***. Well, though it felt great, I never came. So the reason I included all the detail is to show we had plenty of foreplay beforehand.
In answer to your question about me adding the details, its because I asked this a few days ago. I was asking the first part, got some answers from elsewhere, from which i learned that what usually makes a guy *** earlier is the level of foreplay. I wrote exactly what happened so those professionals out there would be able to gauge how quickly I should ***. And no, I did not get off writing the previous. I wrote it about 30 minutes after the fact…
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Sounds like a pretty major problem you got aneejaculation where you don’t *** at all you need to have that properly diagnosed though Id be going to a specialist a urologist who specializes in this kinda sexual dysfunction..you either have aneejacualtion or delayed orgasm both need to be treated.. with all the stimulation you said you should be orgasming and ejaculating especially with the handjob from her that’s really weird when you masturbate do you ever ***? that’s important because if you cant do it on your own your definatelly not going to with another person involved…Id get to the doctor soon!! you may have something wrong with your prostate or epidermis just get to the doctors!!!
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One Response to “I don’t ejaculate for 20 minutes, but my GF went through multiple orgasms”Thanks for your answer. I will definitely try to schedule an appointment soon. Its difficult though since Im in the army and I deploy August 20th. Also, when I masturbate, I ***. Not easily, as in I will last 10 – 15 minutes, but I do eventually ***