I left my bf cause I have leukemia…
I left my boyfriend cause I have cancer..?
and now i’m starting to regret it. He’s known about it for years, and has looked past it, but now that it’s reached stage four, I just am afraid I’ll die on him..I really don’t want to hurt him. He’s the sweetest guy I ever met, and he treats me so well, always has, even before the cancer.
But now I feel like I made a mistake of getting rid of him..he’s always been there for me. I’m just afraid of hurting him. Did I do the right thing?
We chased after another for seven whole years. I moved far away when I was 10. At age tweleve he confessed he loved me, and from there we were in this long distance love battle..he came and moved in with me last month…and has just asked me to marry him last week..and now that I heard from my doctors that it wouldn’t be wise for me to continue treatment, I just got rid of him.
What have I done? Was it right? He seemed pretty upset…he was very accepting with all this as well..I just don’t know what to do, if anyone could possibly help me out here, I’d feel a lot better.
Best Answer
Hi , I am sorry to hear you took such drastic step in getting rid off your boyfriend who seemed to really care about you, but it is understandable you are afraid and have every reason to be. My advice is to even though it is hard, try to concentrate on living you are still here and where there is life there is hope, no body knows what will happen “THE FUTURE HAS NOT BEEN PROMISED TO ANY OF US” live life in the present TODAY right this moment is what is real nothing else exists, don’t think about dying we are all in the same boat, you just happened to have a condition that appears to be a threat, I understand it is hard to see this because of all the fear that has been pounded onto us by the medical profession about cancer, but understand it is just a “word” you can choose to live and the will to live that you have is enough for it to become a reality and for your body to heal, your body has the power to do so, it has intelligence, it has come into this world with all the necessary tools to heal itself and fix what ever is not working well, please believe this because it is true, I have seen people close to me recover after having been given little time to live but they chose to believe otherwise and they are still here happy and healthy, search for books or stories of hundreds of cancer survivors who chose to live. Research therapies like The Gerson therapy it has more than 90% success rate in cures it is gentle and effective, I don’t know where you live but here in australia we have Ian Gawler in Melbourne who has workshops to teach you how to survive he is fantastic having survived cancer himself over 30 years ago. Anyway I think I have said too much already. If your boyfriend wants to be with you because he loves and cares about you, let it be his decision dont push him away, respect his wish to be with you no matter what. Read the book called the power of now you can find it in any library it is fantastic. Here follow this links to gerson’s therapies and videos.
http://www.gerson.org/
http://www.blip.tv/file/418250
Power to you!!!!!